Hunt, I know it is unjust to generalize by calling all men wanks, therefore I won’t do this — particularly because deep down, i understand (or perhaps wish) it isn’t really correct. However, i actually do believe there is an epidemic of losers nowadays and while not totally all guys are the same, most of them truly seem to be.

1. 
   I’ve heard all the ‘bad man’ stories.
   
   I’ve actually heard many tales about bad men from my friends, work colleagues, and fundamentally any other lady I ever fulfilled — that is certainly not even taking into account all of the terrible experiences I had myself in dating. After hearing all of that material, it may be disappointing.
2. 
   Plenty bad guys show similar characteristics.
   
   Most of the dudes I always big date had been terrible guys, so I imagine I only have myself personally to be blamed for picking them around great men (regarding that in a bit). The overriding point is which they contributed a number of the same qualities, such lying and too little dedication. Happenstance? I do not think so. It’s like they were reading from the exact same dating handbook!
3. 
   There’s a reason the reason why great men are known as “unicorns.”
   
   A unicorn is described as a mythical animal, and finding an enjoyable man sometimes feels as though observing a unicorn in the exact middle of the active urban area, appearing all sparkly and calm, with Louboutins inside my size on its straight back. The “unicorn” phase wouldn’t have needed to be designed whenever explaining a great guy if great dudes had been all over the place.
4. 
   Countless guys are not seeking anything real.
   
   Again, not generalizing here, but there are a lot guys who are just looking for one thing enjoyable, without any strings attached. Indeed, in a
   learn by James Madison University
   that asked both women and men about if they prefer hooking up over standard dating, effects indicated that 41 % of women favored conventional internet dating to hooking up, when compared to 20% of males.
5. 
   Most dudes are great… unless you learn all of them.
   
   The reason its easy to fall for men which seems wonderful, simply to find out he is around no good? The guy comes across as wonderful at the beginning. This occurs more regularly that guys might imagine. Already been through it, had gotten conned, still planning on Ashton Kutcher to run inside area yelling, “you’ve got punked!”
6. 
   Perhaps i am to blame… or am I?
   
   Perhaps i am to be culpable for considering the majority of dudes are the same because i am one
   seeking the bad guys
   instead of the nicer types. Okay, We acknowledge that. But nevertheless, i cannot be blamed based on how lots of wanks and terrible males are around, can I?!
7. 
   Guys happen ghosting women for many years.
   
   Indeed, both males and females ghost others, but in my personal knowledge men have been ghosting females for a long time — well before “ghosting” became these an online dating pattern and taboo. Since I was in my personal kids, I’ve spent a lot of every night weeping over some loser, wondering exactly why the guy wont respond to my personal messages. Men developed ghosting.
8. 
   Guys are more narcissistic.
   
   A
   three-year study
   from the University of Buffalo School of administration discovered that guys are more narcissistic after evaluating over 500,000 topics. How come this the actual situation? Referring right down to them getting much less stigmatized if they present their narcissistic conduct. Yup, culture is much more accepting from it.
9. 
   A lot of men simply want gender.
   
   Okay, so are there many women on the market that looking gender next to the most important day but i mightn’t understand because I date males. So, if you ask me, there has been many guys who’re checking for a simple gender treatment according to the guise of internet dating. Spending some time on a dating app is enough to see that the caliber of discussion frequently results in your penis photo ditch.
10. 
    Guys hack more often in marriage.
    
    Studies have learned that
    men cheat on the spouses
    above females cheat to their husbands, so forgive me personally for being a little worried to just take that big walk down the aisle.
11. 
    Many men you should not need smart females.
    
    It really is sad but true. And even though many dudes claim to want to day intelligent females, this isn’t always possible. Sometimes they’re absolutely
    intimidated by wise ladies
    . In a
    2006 speed-dating experiment
    , the guys surveyed found intelligence attractive unless the smart lady involved had been better than all of them. Hmmm.
12. 
    Many men have fun with the same relationship video games.
    
    Indeed, both genders play games in connections. Some common video games many men enjoy playing tend to be mind games feeling powerful. They also desire test on their own by attempting to draw in attractive ladies, and they like a challenge – this is exactly why we have always said men are the hunters, I guess. They generally’ll even try to keep a woman on the toes because they build the woman with comments and busting her down with insults. This occurs over it will. Ugh. Its a nightmare available to choose from.
13. 
    Countless men are wanks.
    
    There are plenty dudes available to choose from who behave like overall wanks. They’re self-centered, mean, arrogant, and the number goes on. Sadly, it pays to get like this. Males with the “dark triad” attributes of narcissism, manipulation, and psychopathy (eg sleeping) are often located to have even more intimate partners, per study that sampled over 200 university students. It’s really no surprise those terrible men are on an electrical excursion, but in my guide, they may be nonetheless jerks.